So what turns you on....?
How would you feel if you were on a first date and he/she asked you the above question? The question may take him/her off guard and even defensive. I attend ask these question on some first dates I have had in the past. I decided to ask girls this question because I got bored of answering the normal predictable first date questions. For example, what do you like to do and what do you do for a living. I learn to asking the boring questions but in a more interesting and engaging way; therefore learning more about that person up front.
The question is suppose to make the first date experience more engaging and interactive and for one to learn more about the opposite sex on all levels then they would by engaging them the normal way. One can answer the question in any manner they want, such as if they are expressing their selves in a physical or emotional way, you are bound to learn more about that person then you normally would. There should always be a follow up question if after every answer such as "how does that turn you on or why does that turn you on". Don't let them or her off the hook some easy especially if your feeling that person. In my experience the more comfortable a person is around you the less guard person is, and the more you learn up front. The question tends to breed life into those asking and answering the questions. It is important that you pay close attention to your partners responds to each question and how their body reacts to the questions you are asking. I word to the wise do make your questions to personal in the beginning, the questioning will build up to that is your patient. This doesn't mean you still don't have to put in the necessary amount of work; it just makes your work load less stressful. Keep in mind this question will not fly well with every type of person so you have to use your judgment if the person you’re with will be subjective to this type of question. Overall, have fun and good luck.
STAY IN THE BOX!
The question is suppose to make the first date experience more engaging and interactive and for one to learn more about the opposite sex on all levels then they would by engaging them the normal way. One can answer the question in any manner they want, such as if they are expressing their selves in a physical or emotional way, you are bound to learn more about that person then you normally would. There should always be a follow up question if after every answer such as "how does that turn you on or why does that turn you on". Don't let them or her off the hook some easy especially if your feeling that person. In my experience the more comfortable a person is around you the less guard person is, and the more you learn up front. The question tends to breed life into those asking and answering the questions. It is important that you pay close attention to your partners responds to each question and how their body reacts to the questions you are asking. I word to the wise do make your questions to personal in the beginning, the questioning will build up to that is your patient. This doesn't mean you still don't have to put in the necessary amount of work; it just makes your work load less stressful. Keep in mind this question will not fly well with every type of person so you have to use your judgment if the person you’re with will be subjective to this type of question. Overall, have fun and good luck.
STAY IN THE BOX!
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