What Turns You On....

Part 1

So what turns you on....?

 How would you feel if you were on a first date and he/she asked you the above question? The question may take him/her off guard and even defensive. I attend ask these question on some first dates I have had in the past. I decided to ask girls this question because I got bored of answering the normal predictable first date questions. For example, what do you like to do and what do you do for a living. I learn to asking the boring questions but in a more interesting and engaging way; therefore learning more about that person up front.

The question is suppose to make the first date experience more engaging and interactive and for one to learn more about the opposite sex on all levels then they would by engaging them the normal way. One can answer the question in any manner they want, such as if they are expressing their selves in a physical or emotional way, you are bound to learn more about that person then you normally would. There should always be a follow up question if after every answer such as "how does that turn you on or why does that turn you on". Don't let them or her off the hook some easy especially if your feeling that person. In my experience the more comfortable a person is around you the less guard person is, and the more you learn up front. The question tends to breed life into those asking and answering the questions. It is important that you pay close attention to your partners responds to each question and how their body reacts to the questions you are asking. I word to the wise do make your questions to personal in the beginning, the questioning will build up to that is your patient. This doesn't mean you still don't have to put in the necessary amount of work; it just makes your work load less stressful. Keep in mind this question will not fly well with every type of person so you have to use your judgment if the person you’re with will be subjective to this type of question. Overall, have fun and good luck.


STAY IN THE BOX!

President Hudson

America witness its first African America elected into the Presidency of the United States Nov. 4. It's a great feeling for a lot of Americans, especially at a time the country is looking for a hero and leadership. It’s definitely a great feeling for some people and I can definitely see it on people's faces as I walked to the Metra this morning for work. As I was crossing an alley way this morning a truck came to a sudden halt. The driver then waves me by then proceeds out of the alley, but not before yelling "OBAMA". I told a good friend about the moment I just expressed to you guy and she stated "last night was a remarkable moment. Get use to it. You’re a gorgeous educated black man you’re just Obama to every1 now". For the most part every surrounding character in my life expresses an overwhelming feeling of this elections and gratitude.  This man represents change for a better America.  The biggest question that I face is how I feel about the history I just have witness, and do I feel the same as everyone else I have come across today.  I will be honest with you all, I really don't know how or what to feel.  I'm excited that he is the first African American to become president.  It’s great for African Americans in general and minority in general.  I’m not saying I have no feeling on the matter I just don't know how to feel and the only thing that comes to mind is change.  So for now, we'll say I feel change is knocking on the door.  I figure it’s a matter opening the door.  I'll express more on this issue after the President inauguration and at that time I will have more feeling on the matter.  But till then how do you all feel after our new president of the United State and why?  Who knows, I may be in the next running in the near future.

Cut Off!

I was informed that I shouldn't write about women on this blog, I will not this time around but who's to say for next time. I will admit I'm not quite that comfortable yet doing this blogging thing to touch on the subject of "women".



Ok I lie; this blog will reference women in a slight way. October 31st presents Halloween as well as the "cut-off date", and the only reason I bring this topic up is because the cut off date approaches. What is the cut off date and what does that mean. Basically at a certain time of the year the playing field seem to get thinner between November 1st and March 31st. The game doesn't change it's just the field that does; you don't have as many players as you normally during the season. Think of Oct. 31st as the World Series, the last game of the season before winter ball begins, an opportunity for one dress up to be someone he is not "Freaky Jason". For those who don't know who "freaky Jason" is only one word can describe this character, and that's illusionist. For example in the Halloween movies Jason would always come out of nowhere to kill the girl/boy, and thats what you wantto be in this scenrio. The one thing "Freaky Jason" will reveal is that he is freaky and that's it, like in the movie Jason reveals that he is a killer and that is it. It's only right to be "Freaky Jason" on Halloween the two just seem to go together. Consider the 31st land on a Friday this year, this day has evening more meaning then it originally did. This is the World Series and everyone has a Freaky Jason just waiting to come out. So ladies, beware of the Freaky Jason. So for thus guys looking to find that special someone to court for the winter months this cut off date is crucial. Why, because to will not have as many opportunities as you normally would in the pollen seasons. Please don't get discourage if for those of you who don't make the cut off date, winter paly can be very promising.

Remember, we all come in all different colors, shapes and sizes and we all need love too...

Peace out! I'm going to get my Freak Jason on.....

CJ...

For those of you who don’t know me I’m a person always looking for a challenge and never really satisfied in life.  Don’t get me wrong I’m blessed for all I have in life but I expect more of a mental gain overall.  If the challenge is in the work place, or in my personal life I seem not to be able to avoid the challenge.  Who doesn’t like the occasional challenge but when you thrive your life on them it can make things continuing uneasy in some way but fun and self accomplishing.  The biggest challenge Im facing now, is finding something I can call a career.  I’m at a point in my life were Im looking and ready to start a career for myself not a job.  Chris Rock says the difference between a career and a job is how time passes in the day.  one of the best lines I’ve hard was from Chris Rock says a job is when you spend extra time in the bathroom sitting on the toilet for no apparent reason, just hoping time passes by faster.  I’m sure I could have chosen a cleaner analogy, but this one hit to close to home.  Those who are laughing or smiling at this point know exactly what Chris and I are talking about.   Ill be honest about three years ago the words career wouldn’t have came out of my lips or crossed my mind, now its something I can’t get out of my fuckin lips and can’t stop fuckin thinking about.  One can spent countless hours thinking about he/she wants to do with their life doing in life and nothing comes to mind.  Has one ever imagined their career and couldn’t tell what the fuck they just imagined themselves doing.  All you know is that it was something great and you were happy and you little imaginary world.  I have heard the saying that people search their whole lives looking for the right career that makes them happy and some ever find it.  Does one ever find it because the opportunity is too great for them to achieve or is time really against them.  This is the current challenge Im facing at this time and I’m not one to avoid a challenge.  There are a lot of things that sculpt my life and challenges are a big one.  It probably will be a big topic with me because it has the power to dictate some of the choices I make.  So with that said, I’ll end this blog on that note.

 

What is your current challenge and how does it effect you, please share?

I am!

Good day to those who seek the gratification!

I'm new to blogging so I'm using this method to motivate my thoughts and feelings.  For my first blog ill keep it short and give u a little info bout myself.  I know you all don't know me but i'm going to tell you guys more about myself but Im going to leave certain area's blank for you all to fill in.  I'm very interested to see how this plays out so make it good.

I'm a single_______male located in the entire city of chicago, illinois.  I stay_______, and I love to________________.  I have had many______________, wonder_________________.  I like_________________, ___________________, and _______________with friends.  

I'll stop there!  Enjoy!