What Turns You On....

Part 1

So what turns you on....?

 How would you feel if you were on a first date and he/she asked you the above question? The question may take him/her off guard and even defensive. I attend ask these question on some first dates I have had in the past. I decided to ask girls this question because I got bored of answering the normal predictable first date questions. For example, what do you like to do and what do you do for a living. I learn to asking the boring questions but in a more interesting and engaging way; therefore learning more about that person up front.

The question is suppose to make the first date experience more engaging and interactive and for one to learn more about the opposite sex on all levels then they would by engaging them the normal way. One can answer the question in any manner they want, such as if they are expressing their selves in a physical or emotional way, you are bound to learn more about that person then you normally would. There should always be a follow up question if after every answer such as "how does that turn you on or why does that turn you on". Don't let them or her off the hook some easy especially if your feeling that person. In my experience the more comfortable a person is around you the less guard person is, and the more you learn up front. The question tends to breed life into those asking and answering the questions. It is important that you pay close attention to your partners responds to each question and how their body reacts to the questions you are asking. I word to the wise do make your questions to personal in the beginning, the questioning will build up to that is your patient. This doesn't mean you still don't have to put in the necessary amount of work; it just makes your work load less stressful. Keep in mind this question will not fly well with every type of person so you have to use your judgment if the person you’re with will be subjective to this type of question. Overall, have fun and good luck.


STAY IN THE BOX!

President Hudson

America witness its first African America elected into the Presidency of the United States Nov. 4. It's a great feeling for a lot of Americans, especially at a time the country is looking for a hero and leadership. It’s definitely a great feeling for some people and I can definitely see it on people's faces as I walked to the Metra this morning for work. As I was crossing an alley way this morning a truck came to a sudden halt. The driver then waves me by then proceeds out of the alley, but not before yelling "OBAMA". I told a good friend about the moment I just expressed to you guy and she stated "last night was a remarkable moment. Get use to it. You’re a gorgeous educated black man you’re just Obama to every1 now". For the most part every surrounding character in my life expresses an overwhelming feeling of this elections and gratitude.  This man represents change for a better America.  The biggest question that I face is how I feel about the history I just have witness, and do I feel the same as everyone else I have come across today.  I will be honest with you all, I really don't know how or what to feel.  I'm excited that he is the first African American to become president.  It’s great for African Americans in general and minority in general.  I’m not saying I have no feeling on the matter I just don't know how to feel and the only thing that comes to mind is change.  So for now, we'll say I feel change is knocking on the door.  I figure it’s a matter opening the door.  I'll express more on this issue after the President inauguration and at that time I will have more feeling on the matter.  But till then how do you all feel after our new president of the United State and why?  Who knows, I may be in the next running in the near future.